Wednesday, July 9, 2014
You know exactly what is good for you and yet you allow yourself to be dictated by what is not good for you. This is not a weakness but a struggle that you must overcome
You also know that you will become what you are because time does not wait for you to change.
What you are today will be you in many years to come if you do not change what is within.
It's really your choice.
Monday, December 30, 2013
Thursday, December 26, 2013
In the movie, "Total Rekall", they lived in the colony while the powerful and wealthy lived in the United Federation of Britain. The people of the colony are workers for the UFB. They travelled to the UFB via the "Fall".
In every society throughout human history, the scavengers and the people of the colony live and are oppressed.
Today, they are the normal citizens society can do without, do not care - maybe you and I.
How the leaders pretend to serve the scavengers or the people of the colony when they never experienced the experiences of these people?
How can they even pretend to lead these people when they have never lived among them?
How can they understand the pain, the struggles and the real needs of the ordinary people?
Only a leader from the ordinary people can effectively lead the ordinary people - not leaders put on stage by the wealthy and powerful system.
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Everyone has something to say about anything. It does not matter whether what they is necessary or relevant. It seems to be more important that they say something.
Just look around you. People do not stop moving thier mouths. They just talk and talk and talk.
No one ever pauses to ask why they talk.
No one ever pauses to ask why they talk what they talk.
Because they never pause to ask, they just talk without knowing why they talk.
Because they never pause to ask, they just talk without knowing why they talk what they talk.
Most people love to talk so much without knowing why and hence, most people love talkers. It does not matter what the talker talks about as long as he is able to talk and talk. If the talker is able to talk about the most irrelevant and insignificant matter, he will be held up in high esteem.
If the talker is able to sensationalise his talks, he will be held up in higher esteem. The talker must not pause from his talking, for pause means silence.
Silence is held in contempt by most people. Silence forces them to be confronted with thier inner selves. It forces them to think.
People do not like thinkers. They like talkers.
Talkers entertain and fill up thier self created void in thier lives. Thinkers force them to think about the void in thier lives.
Thinkers advocate silence. Seclusion. To be comfortable in a cave, in darkness, to confront with the Self. To accept the Reality.
Talkers advocate noise. Exclusion of Self. To be comfortable with the crowd, in bright blinding light. To embrace the Illusion.
Most people love illusion as opposed to Reality - cosmetics, superficialities, rationalizations, grandisosity, pomposity, and anything that inflates the ego. Talkers can deliver all these to them. Thus they love talkers.
Talkers talk about laughing and do not encourage crying. Their sense of happiness is limited to the illusion of laughter and the denial of the joy of crying.
Thinkers love simplicity and embrace Reality with total happiness. They love the silence that brings them back to their Self. They neither cry nor laugh within though outwardly they do.
Are you a thinker or a talker?
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Life is a balance.
It is the balance that gives tranquility, serenity and peace. When the balance is tampered, there is no tranquility, serenity nor peace. It is that simple.
The balance in life is natural and eternal. The opposite is transient. You must allow the natural forces to maintain that balance. You must understand and know what the natural forces are. You must swim and flow WITH it, not AGAINST it. Nature left to itself behaves like water – finds and returns to its own balance always. It always returns to a state of tranquility, serenity and peace.
But you are different. You are human. You are a part of nature but have been given the power to choose to be WITH or AGAINST the forces of nature. Either decision will determine whether you will be happy and not miserable or otherwise.
Choice is not necessarily a good or bad thing.
It can either lead you down the garden path or down the path of fire. The power of choice without wisdom is devastating. Choice in the hands of the foolish is destructive. You need wisdom to make the right choices.
Wisdom is not knowledge alone.
There are many knowledgeable fools roaming the earth causing further untold unhappiness and misery. There are many more who are confused between the accumulation of information and knowledge. Can we call a computer knowledgeable despite the vast information it may have?
Understanding and knowing is the essence that differentiates the fool from the wise.
Wisdom comes from being one with nature. Wisdom comes when we learn to understand nature NOT as we want to but as how nature itself wants to be understood. You simply let the cards fall where they may and learn from the natural design.
The true understanding of nature leads to acceptance of nature and hence ourselves. It is like the rain that falls onto a mountain and flows all the way to the sea. You may call it a waterfall at one stage, a stream at another, or a river, or the sea at the end.
Water knows that it is water at all of these stages. It does not confuse the stages with its true nature. It does confuse the process with itself. It accepts the natural process without rebellion nor hesitation while not losing sense of its own nature.
But you are different. Being a human living this life based on beliefs which you do not know, you confuse the stages in your life with your true nature. In the process, you forget who you really are. You forget your nature. You cause a conflict between your beliefs and your true nature upsetting the balance within you.
Thus, you end up being unhappy and miserable and keep repeating this cycle all your life.
While nature will find its own balance naturally, you, the human, have been given choices. So, you have to choose to find the balance again – if you want to.
To find this balance, you have to return to its source – you.
You have to get to know yourself putting aside what you believe about yourself. Belief without knowing is mostly futile.
Are you ready to know yourself?
Will you allow yourself to be known to you?
Do you want to know why you are reading this in the first place?
The key to breaking the cycle of unhappiness and misery to know your self, your nature.
NEXT: Why Do You Remain in the State of Unhappiness and Misery? – Part 3 (IF it is meant to be written)
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
You say you want happiness and freedom from misery but you keep doing everything possible that will make you more unhappy and more miserable.
You try to chase for that “happiness” when you do not even know what “happiness” all about.
You set a goal and tell yourself that the achievement of your goal will make you happy. You work hard at achieving that goal. You neglect everything else. Someone has told you that you have to be focused to achieve that. You believed without knowing.
Focus is good but you are focusing on achieving something that you believe will make you happy. You believe that it will make you happy but you do not know if it will. You just proceed with your belief without ever making the effort to know what is it that you are chasing. You have never tried to know if achieving that goal will really make you happy.
You have never tried to know what happiness is for you. How could you when you have never really even tried to know yourself?
Since you have never known yourself, you keep chasing after things that satisfy your ego, your desires and your beliefs. You mistake these things for what you want.
Since they are not what you need but believed they are what you wanted, you end up unhappier than before. You become more miserable and set up another goal that you believe will make you happy.
As long as you keep living in this cycle of belief after belief without knowing, you will repeat the cycle of unhappiness and misery in your life.
If you want to be happy, you must know.
If you want to be free from misery, you must know.
You must first know what causes unhappiness and misery.
Only then can you avoid the cycle of unhappiness and the ensuing misery.
NEXT: What causes unhappiness and misery (IF it is meant to be written)
Sunday, June 6, 2010
You came to me uninvited.
I was just traveling on the path and you came. You could come since the space is much yours to use as much as it is mine. You could stay for the same reason but you asked me to stay for a while. I did for I am of that nature. You made a request that I could fulfill and I fulfilled it. A while. That could have been all.
But you asked and you asked me many questions. I answered them because you asked. I answered what I knew, what I thought and what I could. I did not ask you to ask or need to be asked. I am fine being silent, and alone traveling through this transient path. You broke my silence and encroached on my loneliness and yet I did not complain.
When you asked, I answered. You did not like my answer. I did not ask you to like my answer or have a need for you to like it. I answered because you asked. I did not answer to make you like it or to like me. I do not think of you less or more based on how you reacted to my answer. I was only thinking of your question and of my answer. That should have been that. Simple. Questions and answers.
When I answered you, I do not cling on to your question – or to your reaction to my answer. I have no power over whether you like it or not. I do not wish to have that power for I do not need more burden than the burden of passing through this transient life. I get no pleasure from wanting to influence you for that too is transient. I have no interest in transience.
Having asked the question, you clinged on to my answer. You did not like it. You were upset that I had given you the answer that I know. How can I give you any other answer than the answer that I know? How can I lie to myself? I did not intend to appease you or to upset you with my answer. When you asked I intended to only answer your question and continue walking.
What other intention can there be when a question is asked? A question is asked to elicit an answer. If you had any other motives than just to get an answer from me, then that is from you. That must be your nature or you may have made it your nature. I do not fault you for what you are or chose to be. Day does not begrudge night nor vice versa. They simply exist. Should we not?
You were upset with my answer and I recognize that. I want to continue my walking. Idleness will delay my entry onto the next path. But you hold me back even when I recognize that you were upset with my answer. There is nothing more I can give from myself but you still try to hold me back. You think you are holding me back but that is an illusion. You cannot hold back what you do not have.
When I continue the path I was on when you came with the question, you think I am walking away from you. I cannot move away from you for I was never near. Like day and night, we were just there. Neither near nor far but just there when it was meant to be.
But you did not want to let me go until I give you the answer that you want. But how can I give an answer that I do not have? I can only give you from myself, not from without. You want something that I do not have and you fault me for that.
If it pleases you that the entire miseries of the transient world should be placed on my shoulders, so be it. I will neither accept nor reject it but I will let it be.
You seek the illusion. I seek the reality. Transience is an illusion to me but a reality to you. So be it, I say, for I have no control over your perception. Neither do I want to control it for that is impossible.
I have seen this in my mind many times before.
And I see it again and again.
Do I have to explain everything to you? I have no explanations but only answers from within.
My answers, not yours.